FOR CLIENTS IN SEATTLE & SURROUNDING AREAS & WASHINGTON STATE
In-person & online
Kink, Poly and LGBTQ+ friendly and sex positive counseling
What is Sex Positive Therapy ?
As a sex positive therapist, I believe that people of all sexual preferences, relationship structures, sexual identity, gender, size, race, neurodiversity and body ability deserve to enjoy emotional and sexual fulfillment.
In other words, I will support you regardless of the lifestyle you choose or the type of work you do (including sex work). What I believe is that it is not what you do, but how you do it that matters.
What is important is that your emotional and erotic needs are expressed in ways that involve important principles of sexual health such as: informed consent, open communication, consideration of all partners needs and pleasure, freedom from STDs and unwanted pregnancies as well as the absence of coercion and imbalance of power.
I welcome:
Clients who prefer any kind of ethically non-monogamous relationships like: polyamory, “monogamish”, swinging and more.
Gay and non-binary clients and couples.
Couples where one or both of the partners preferences or needs involve Kink, BDSM, Role-play and more.
Have you struggled expressing yourself and pursuing your needs when they do not conform to societal, religious or gender roles?
So many of us have been denied basic sex education. As a result sex and sexuality are often associated with silence, shame or fear. These direct and indirect messages can stay with us and keep a grip on us even when at odds with our intellect and common sense.
I want to help you reclaim your sexuality on your own terms.
After all, none of us would be here without it.
Sex Positive Therapy is for you if:
You are considering opening up your relationship but have concerns or you are not sure how to go about it.
You have a sexual fantasy, desire or need that you would like to try or experience with your partner, but you are concerned about how they might react.
You want to incorporate kink, BDSM, role-play, bondage or any other form of sexual play in your relationship, but you don’t know how to get started.
Your preferences or needs are at odds with the mainstream, and it interferes with your ability to fully express them or have them satisfied.
You experience shame, fear or guilt due to your upbringing or societal and religious messaging about relationships and sexuality.
You need, safe, supportive and nonjudgmental presence to authentically express yourself.
and many more.